
FOSTERing with
Motley zoo
"If just 2% of households fostered pets, we could eliminate unnecessary euthanasia TOMORROW."
- Petco Foundation
What is Fostering? (the short version)
Fostering is the act of hosting an adoptable animal in your home, temporarily.
Through medical care, basic training, pictures, video, promotion and the stories you relay- as well as your foster's attendance at meet & greet or other events- your foster animal will get the exposure he or she needs to be considered by prospective adoptive families.
Our job is to screen and match them to the family that best suits the animals' needs, based on the info your provided- so they can go to a permanent loving home, just like yours.
In the simplest terms, you will change the world for an animal in need, without changing too much of your own.
See below for the answers to most questions you may have.
Check out this great foster training orientation from Petcademy which will help you understand the roles and expectations of fostering animals. This is a great start to introduce you to what fostering is like.
Ultimately, Motley Zoo will provide further training and information to support the more specific ideals, strategies, techniques and policies we have which build on the overall foundation Petcademy has curated!
Fostering FAQs (the detailed version)
Below are some FAQs about the rewards of fostering. If you have additional questions, feel free to email us.
Why should I consider fostering animals?
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Fostering animals is an exceptionally rewarding experience! You will not regret the decision to foster- even if you just do it once
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Don’t think you “can’t”- give it a try, you just might LOVE it!
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Fostering can increase your knowledge and understanding of animal behavior, including with your own pets
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The knowledge you glean will help you with other animals in the future, whether or not you continue to foster
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Fostering teaches selflessness and empathy, especially to impressionable children who are exploring ways in which they can impact the world in a positive way
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Children typically enjoy fostering because “new is novel”- meeting the next foster animal is always exciting! We have seen very few kids cry, but the adults…that’s another story!
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Go into fostering as though you are pet sitting an owned animal- they already have a home and it’s not an option for you to keep them. We just don’t know who will be coming to pick them, or when!
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You will get attached to your foster animals, but that doesn’t mean you cannot let them go
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We encourage you to let the first foster be adopted, so you can experience the entire reward of your efforts
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Adopting out your foster is like giving the best gift to a treasured friend or family member
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When you see the look a kid’s face when he gets his first puppy- or the elderly person who is lonely without their new kitty to comfort them, you will NOT be sad!
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You can help more animals if you don’t keep them all
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Fosters help keep animals out of the shelters, thereby decreasing the number of animals euthanized, especially for time and space
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Fostering allows an animal a loving home “unless and until” they find a permanent one
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Fostering doesn’t require great resources of time or money- just a commitment to save the life of an animal
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10 minutes spent with you is better than any spent in a scary place, all alone. Many animals find shelters stressful even when they are very nice ones. As awesome as they can be and as necessary as shelters are, their capacity for care will never match the comfort a home environment can provide any animal.
Who can foster animals?
The answer is just about anyone, really! Fosters are people just like you.
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People who have jobs- even full time hours
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We will work to match the type of animal with your hours
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For example, if you work 10 hours days and cannot go home for lunch, a puppy would not be a good idea without a dog walker or dog daycare as an option- but perhaps an adult dog or a cat could work
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People who live in apartments, condos and rented homes
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As long as you have paid any necessary deposits and fees for adopting, you should be able to foster
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When breaching the subject with your landlord, we suggest simply noting that you will be adopting, rather than fostering
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For whatever reason, we have found landlords fear the idea of fostering, even when adopting is otherwise unrestricted.
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We will not contact your landlord for permission, but we fully expect that you are allowed to have pets in some capacity if you agree to foster.
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For example, once you have paid any deposits, etc, there is no real difference if you have one dog, forever, or foster 3 dogs over the period of a year
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You should already be responsible for any damage you incur as a result of living there, whether or not you foster
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We have rules about how to manage your animals to minimize any impact on your living space
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We don’t want anyone to be evicted for fostering, naturally, so please consider all of this and proceed at your own risk- but we have yet to have a problem even in apartment complexes
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People with other pets
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Who better to foster animals than those that already love them!
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For the most part, what you do for your own animals, works just fine for a foster animal
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There are some rules and guidelines to follow in regards to any differences in how you manage the foster animal compared to your own
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We will provide you a foster animal we believe is a good match for you and your pets, though there may be some supervision and or adjustments during any transition period
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Families with kids, abiding by the following restrictions:
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Due to safety concerns, we can only foster dogs in homes with children who are over the age of 5yrs.
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Families with kids under 5yrs and at our discretion, can foster cats, kittens or other small animals.
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Families with kids under 5yrs can adopt dogs however, as the liability of ownership is transferred to the family, rather than remaining with us
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What is my responsibility as a foster?
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You are a caretaker for our foster animal, but you have no ownership rights
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Your goal is to help animals become more “adoptable” through:
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Structure
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Guidance
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Training
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Exercise
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You treat the animal like one of your own-with some restrictions- until a permanent home is found.
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You are responsible for our animals’ care and safety, so take this seriously
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Although MZAR is ultimately liable for the animal, we expect that fosters will behave in safe, prudent ways with careful regard for liability
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Any issues of liability may cost MZAR hard earned funds, which costs animals their lives
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Err on the side of caution and don’t take chances!
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You are a caretaker for our foster animal, but you have no ownership rights
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Because you do not have ownership rights, you are not allowed to make decisions about, nor treat, change/ alter our foster animals in any way, without specific instruction and permission from an authorized MZAR representative. This includes:
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Vet care or surgeries
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Grooming changes
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Rehoming/ moving the animal
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You are required to adhere to a specific, proven protocol of vet care, which will be outlined to you and is also known by/ available to our vets
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No one, especially a vet, should direct you to act on your own accord, nor contradict our specific instructions
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If anyone, including a vet, attempts to have you deviate from this protocol, contact us immediately!
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Although vets are educated, and it may seem correct to follow a vet’s advice, they may not understand why as a rescue, we may choose to treat and animal in a way that may differ from the perspective of an owner.
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The vets’ specific advice may be more costly than necessary
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The treatments may be too long term, not focused on rehoming as a priority
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Treatments may involve “off label” use of medications- meaning a medication that is safe and used for one ailment, may be applied to others, although that may not be its specific purpose
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If you have questions or are unsure of how to proceed during a vet visit, contact us immediately!
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How long do foster pets stay?
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Foster animals typically stay about 3-6 weeks, though this may vary depending on:
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Species
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Age
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Size
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Breed
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Color
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Health
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Time of year
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Sometimes all and/ or none of the above
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Fostering is not a commitment to a set amount of time, rather it is a commitment to rehoming the animal
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The goal is to see the animal through to its new home, however long that may take- of course, barring unusual circumstances, emergencies and vacations
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What if there is an emergency or I am going on vacation?
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Please notify us as soon as you know you may be leaving town- even if it’s just a possibility
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Do not commit to taking a foster animal if you will be leaving within 2 weeks’ time
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One exception would be if you were “boarding” for a foster who is currently on vacation and you know the arrangement is finite
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Do not take your foster pet away for the weekend/ on vacation, nor have someone else babysit them, without asking permission from us!
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We need to know where our animals are- and they must be accessible to us- at all times!
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How long does it take to get my first foster animal?
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From the time you turn in your application, it could be a day, a week or perhaps a couple weeks until you get your first foster animal, depending on the needs of the animals we are requested to take in
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The idea is: saving lives is a good thing to do any time, and that while it can be a little scary at first, sometimes you don’t have much time to prepare
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You will likely not be able to meet your foster before they are placed with you because we cannot accept them in, unless we have a home we’re taking them in to
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With our experience and the information you have provided us about your family and your pets, we can match you with a foster animal that should suit just fine
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Many time, first time fosters take on animals that have already been in our care (take over for another foster that goes on vacation etc.), so we truly know a lot about them already and can gauge a high chance for success
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What if my foster animal is not a good fit?
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Although fostering is temporary, it is not like trying on shoes where you can cycle through animals until you find one that’s “just right”
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Issues of “long term compatibility” are irrelevant, since besides being temporary in nature, part of your role as a foster is to work with animals to help them adapt and become more adoptable- not to give them back if they are not perfect for you
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The important thing to remember is that fostering is saving the pet’s life. Some matters can be a challenge, but overcoming them is far more rewarding than giving up!
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If something “bothers” you about a foster, it will likely bother an adopter. The point then is to help the pet work through this, so that they have a better opportunity at finding a home.
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Remember: fostering is temporary!
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Without your help, the animal would not be alive at all!
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We do not have other fosters just waiting to take over for you- we only take in animals when we have foster homes lined up for them
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We do not move animals unnecessarily as this can cause them stress when they are trying to settle in
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Unnecessary movements might be if you have a “busy weekend” but will not actually be leaving town.
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It is perfectly acceptable for your foster animal to remain at home, when you are able to address their basic needs (especially if your own animals will be staying too), but may not be able to spend specific time with them
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An exception would be when you are unable to attend an adoption event, as we still need your foster present as often as possible
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Other arrangements may be made for the night, or weekend so that your foster can attend an event and interview with potential new families
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If you do need a foster animal moved from your home, we will work together to make a plan for that to happen as soon as possible, but it will likely, not be immediate
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Please be patient when you have made such a request
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If your foster animal has done something dangerous or the situation is clearly unsafe for your family, we will, of course, remove the animal from your home.
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We want fostering to be a fun and safe experience for all and we work hard to make that possible
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You will not be alone through this experience either way- we are here to help and guide you- just ask!
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You will be able to attend dog training classes, free of charge, at our Studio
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Fosters’ own dogs can attend for 50% off
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Foster dogs can attend Rock Star Treatment Daycare when:
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The dog is at least 8 weeks of age
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After a negative fecal test is performed and confirmed
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Vaccines are current for the dogs’ age
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Who pays for the animals’ vet care?
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Motley Zoo pays for all necessary vet care
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Most often we fully vet the pets prior to placing them with you, including:
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Spay/neuter
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Vaccines
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Microchip
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Sometimes dentals (if applicable) and/ or any other required surgery or procedure
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There will be times however when a pet still needs a vet visit or procedure that cannot be completed before placing them with you
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Grooming may be considered medically necessary and is likely covered by the rescue, but please ask first if this is a requirement for your foster
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Please remember that it saves money- therefore lives- if you can attend to some general bathing yourself
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You will likely be required to assist with ongoing vet care- scheduling visits at your convenience
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You are expected to provide transportation for the animals
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If this is not an option, please discuss with us
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We can sometimes do carpools with other fosters and volunteers
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In any emergency, we will cover the medical care!
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Please try and get a hold of us, even in the middle of the night
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If the situation is truly dire, don’t wait before heading to the vet!
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If we cannot be reached for some reason, the vet can either bill us, or you can pay the bill and we will reimburse you.
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We need copies of receipts sent to info@motleyzoo.org to reimburse you.
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What about other necessities, such as food and supplies?
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Fosters typically donate the pet’s food, however we often have donations available for your use!
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Please ask for assistance in this area, especially if you feel this would be a barrier to fostering
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Fostering is not at all about how much you may or may not have!
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If you do buy necessities for your foster, such as medications or supplements that we have approved, keep track of receipts!
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You can apply for reimbursement when you provide the receipt
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You could instead write these expenses off on your taxes for charitable donations.
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Both are dependent on your due diligence
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At your request, we will provide you and “in kind” (a blank receipt you fill in the value amount), for items donated.
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Other equipment will be provided, such as:
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Leash
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Collar (we require you to use a specific kind)
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Crate
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Bedding
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Bowls
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Toys
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If you are provided equipment it’s because we require you to use it!
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The items we provide can make fostering easier and more enjoyable
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You are welcome to purchase items to use and/ or send with your fosters, but keep in mind:
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This will get expensive over time
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Adopters often like to pick out their own new things for their new animal
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A card or letter telling the new family about your experience is just as nice
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Will I be compensated for my time, or will other expenses be covered?
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Fostering is absolutely a volunteer only opportunity
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We currently do not offer paid positions in the rescue, even for Board members and core crew who work full time
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Mileage is driven to and from vet appointments, events and other MZARr based trips is deductible
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Miles can be written off for 14 cents a mile
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This is based on your due diligence of recording your odometer readings, not just trip length
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You do not need a receipt for this.
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Other expenses such as parking, tolls or other incidentals will not be covered
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What are any other do’s and don’ts for fostering?
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Don’t trust the animals until you know them!
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Just as you’d not invite a stranger off the street into your home and let them wander or hang out while you left to run errands- do not let your foster roam around or be out, uncrated/ contained when you are not available to supervise
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At best they might make a mess
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At worst, they could choke, get an obstruction or die
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The rule is: when you are gone or sleeping, the animal is contained/ crated properly (according to our requirements)
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All animals are to be housed/ kept indoors!
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Cats are NOT allowed outside at all- even on harnesses
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Harnesses are typically ill fitting and the cat may still get away
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Cats honestly, usually do not like this anyway
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Foster dogs should not be left outside alone- even in a fenced yard
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Many dogs get anxious or scared when left alone and may try and dig or jump a fence
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Someone might go into the yard and either:
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take the dog
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perhaps get injured or bitten
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either could likely yield the dog’s demise
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Foster dogs must remain on leash at all times!
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Many dogs have come to us as strays, running away from homes they have had for years
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A few days or weeks- or even forever- may not be enough for your foster dog to be trustworthy off-leash-
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Some dogs will never be good off-leash
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The leash is in your hands at all times
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When your foster dog has gotten more comfortable, you can use a “drag leash” in and out of the house
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Foster dogs cannot go to the dog park!
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Unfortunately the dog park is a huge risk for adoptable dogs, no matter how well behaved they may be
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It’s not our foster dogs that we worry about- it’s others’ dogs that may not be friendly or well trained
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When a dog without a home gets in a fight, it’s much worse for that dog than when an owned one does
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The adoptable dog will always lose the battle in terms of who is “right”
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The adoptable dog may need to be euthanized for such a problem
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What if I just can’t let the foster go?
Can I adopt the animal?
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YES!
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We encourage you, especially the first time, to try not so that you get the full experience and reward of fostering.
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Letting the pets go is part of the joy- even if you may be sad too.
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You should never keep a foster because:
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You think they won’t adjust to a new home
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You think they are too attached to you
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You should only keep a foster animal when they are your “dream” animal and you don’t already have too many pets!
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Foster animals are very resilient
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Once you teach them how to trust and bond, it’s easier for them to do this again
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Just as they adjusted to you and your home, they will to another
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You may have “your quota” of animals already and it would not be wise to add more
The most important thing to keep in mind is what is best for the dog. You will not regret giving a foster away- and you probably won’t regret keeping…it just depends on how things go for you. The key rule: What is best for the pet always, is the home available and ready, TODAY.
We provide the vetting care and costs, and just about everything you need. We don’t want finances to stand in the way of you being able to save lives. Food can most often be provided, though generous donations from supporters and partnering pet stores. Basically, helping these pets really costs you nothing- and the rewards are endless! You will be amazed that the life changed by fostering a pet, may very well be your own.
People often think if they have a pet already, or kids, they cannot foster- this simply isn’t true! Most of our fosters have more than one pet, and many have kids…fostering is a great experience for kids, teaching them empathy and generosity…they learn how to give and think about others in a new way…one that stays with them forever! We’ve seen one kid cry once…the adults however are a bit more emotional!
Many people ask how we can do this, without getting too attached, or being sad- but it’s exactly because we love the animals that much that we do this work! To us it is far more sad when animals stay in our care too long- then when they find loving homes quickly - it means no one sees them the way we do; no one loves them as we do…that’s what makes us sad!
Watching your foster pet go to their new home is like giving the best present you can give- the happy family, full of smiles will be all the convincing you need.
Motley Zoo can only help animals that we have foster homes ready and available for - YOU determine who we can help.
Of course we want that to be as many animals as possible - start your journey of saving lives today, and we’ll guide you down this rewarding path of self discovery!
More more information about how to get involved, send us an email at info@motleyzoo.org! Questions specifically about kitties? Shoot us an email at cats@motleyzoo.org, to get a hold of one of our feline experts!
A Guide to Animal Adoption Photography
We get it: taking good pictures of your fast-moving little fur-babies isn't always the easiest thing. When you're fostering an animal though, it's crucial that you work to take as many good photos as possible, so your animal can be "shown off to the world" in the very best light! The goal of fostering is that your animals find forever home - and without good photos representative of your fosters, they might go overlooked.
It's like if you see a "for sale by owner" listing for a home, where the photos are dark, under-exposed, poorly framed, etc...you likely move right along to the next listing, looking for a property with that visual "wow!" factor. The same goes with adoption listings for our animals - we want them highlighted in a way that attracts potential adopters' attention - meaning they find their forever home and family that much more quickly!
Check out this comprehensive and helpful guide to animal adoption photography hints from our friends at Adobe!
Foster-to-adopt INFO & Guidelines
Foster-to-Adopt (FTA) is a wonderful opportunity to begin bonding with your new animal in advance of their adoption - which is determined by the animals’ sterilization readiness. This is determined by age, size, health - and in males, whether the testes have dropped.
While there are many advantages, it does also require some effort on your part which is above and beyond that of a traditional adoption.
The role requires some participation in the general fostering/ rescue effort, which benefits both your future pup and our mission.

Events
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Puppies and kittens are always scheduled for numerous community events and you will be required to make the animals available for these appearances. You will be provided a schedule and plans will be made with as much advance notice as possible (currently about 2 weeks’ lead time). There may be backstage concert requests that are only days out, but then we will make an additional effort to gather the animals for your convenience when possible. We appreciate your patience and understanding- and sometimes this will lead to you meeting some of your favorite artists!
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We will do our best to alternate the animal groups so that you are not relied upon for every scheduled event- rather a staggered engagement schedule.
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These events are critical opportunities for your puppies/ kittens to socialize in a way you cannot provide as an individual.
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The rule of thumb for well-balanced dogs is meeting 500 new people, places and things by 17 weeks of age. As you can imagine, most people don’t even come close to that- which is why we are a lot of fearful dogs in society, even when they grew up in loving homes.
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Lack of socialization mimics abuse- so dogs from loving homes that were not socialized enough often cower, shake and act like they’ve been abused, when it’s really lack of socialization.
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The more exposure the animals have to new people and places, the better socialized they will be- leading to better chances for an overall well-rounded personality. This will set them up for success for lifelong coping, confidence and well-being!
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These events are critical opportunities to spread the word about rescue and adoption. Unfortunately sentiment for adoption has changed over the last few years and more people are inclined to buy a dog- even from a puppy mill or backyard breeder, somehow believing this is better than working with a rescue who truly has the animals’ best interests at heart (vs profit). The “pure bred puppy myth” is alive and well- as is the idea that rescues are broken (even babies who haven’t even had a chance yet)- so these events let people who might otherwise not have a chance, engage with the real rescue animals who will hopefully melt their hearts and sway them once and for all to adoption.
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These events are necessary fundraising opportunities for the animals’ vet care costs. Even though we have an “adoption donation” when the animals find homes, these are not enough to cover the actual costs we incur for veterinary care. As we are not an organization with a vet clinic/ staff vets, we rely on retail veterinary costs- and even discounted, are still quite expensive. We have been averaging $1,000 per animal- while often animals still cost many times that.



Veterinary Care
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If you bought a puppy from a breeder, you’d be required to attend to the same veterinary appointments the animals require while FTA.
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With straight adoption from a rescue or shelter, some or all of the primary care may be completed before adoption, but this also depends on when the animal is adopted- as much of the care is age and duration related.
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For example, how many and which vaccines can be done are determined by:
- When the animals were initially vaccinated
- When received by the organization
- How long the organization has them in care
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Sometimes an adoption will happen mid-point between boosters and they cannot be done prior to going home, and may need to be addressed after adoption by the family. In short, one person will adopt and pay the $700 donation for their puppy but still have 2 vaccines to complete in their series, while another will pay the same and it will be complete- as this is strictly as a function of each animals’ specific case. As well, occasionally some procedures and treatments cannot be done by an adopting organization due to their resource limitations (ex: dentals, dewclaw removal, hernia repair, etc.)
However, Motley Zoo does any and everything we can for our animals while they are in our care.
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This means you receive discounted veterinary care that is current and complete for their age- and this is what your adoption donation goes to support (but does not cover entirely). By allowing us to maintain “ownership” for a longer duration, you receive more benefits for your future animal- which is truly at our expense and liability.
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For example, sometimes animals in FTA have an accident and break a leg, or swallow something because we’ve required them to remain “our” animals for longer than a straight adoption post-sterilization. While it’s unfortunate, it can happen to the best of us- but during FTA, this bill will not be yours to foot.
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This is especially important as many times, such an early on incident could be a reason for return otherwise if the family was not truly prepared for adoption- or they want us to cover it even after they have adopted, which would not truly be our responsibility. Sometimes people say “Well, I just adopted and I didn’t expect this”. But that’s the key: once the adoption happens, liability and responsibility is transferred definitively to you, the adopter, no matter how serious or expensive the issue. Realistically, we cannot indefinitely be responsible for our animals’ care.
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So while we recognize people want to begin their lives already and “take over”, you are at a greater advantage when you let us carry this through as fully and completely as possible.
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With FTA, you are better protected for unplanned emergencies- which includes an undetermined or previously undiagnosed health concern which otherwise would have become apparent only after the adoption.
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We do everything we can to determine the status of the animals’ health before adoption, but surely no matter how careful and how many vet visits the animals have, some things are just not apparent prior. Sometimes health matters can materialize shortly after adoption, and this too is sometimes something people want to hold us accountable for- when this is not truly how adoption works.
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With FTA you have more time to bond, but also make sure you are ready and prepared for your animal, fully and completely- which includes being given the most amount of time possible to make the decision to adopt or not, especially as new information arises.
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Clearly, isn’t easier to have an animal in your home and then find out they have a health condition you need to think about, but this is simply reality (and could happen any time in the future as these are live beings, not appliances with warranties)- and you ultimately can decide if the adoption is what you want, even if it’s heartbreaking to say that’s not what you want or can afford in the end.
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As such, we encourage you to see FTA far less as an obligation or inconvenience in not being able to “take over already and move on”, and instead see it as an advantage and opportunity for your benefit- especially for the animal themselves.
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In the end, we appreciate you balancing your desire to move ahead with the benefits of allowing us to continue to manage care for the animals’ wellbeing mentally, emotionally and physically.
Fundraising
As you have read, veterinary care is quite expensive for an organization like ours. We may have a big presence in the community, but we are still a relatively small organization in general- and have limitations that a shelter may not have (even though we have a facility/property in Monroe).
The types of organizations (shelter vs. rescue) are very different - serving people and animals differently, which is important to understand when it comes to vet care and resources required.
Motley Zoo is unique in that we not only have service-based business to support our mission’s bottom line, but we also engage more often with the community for events.

Being music-themed we have earned the support and trust of the music community, being invited by promoters like Live Nation, venues and bands themselves to participate in backstage meet and greets.
You may not know that we actually were the first to do this kind of thing- although now it has become a movement emulated all over by venues and bands. But this started with us in 2013 when jme (our executive director) had a dream she’d brought animals named after a band to meet the band when they came to town. After laughing heartily about this, she stopped laughing and decided to act out her dream- and it worked.
The band took pictures with the animals, the animals got adopted faster as this gave them attention and an identity (different from the other cats seeking homes at the time). The next band and next band and the next, all took to it as well. After some major worldwide publicity online and in publications, this inspired other organizations to try too…and now it’s a thing! Started by lil’ ol’ us!
This has translated to being invited to conventions and trade shows as the go-to organization in the area for a professional and safe experience. Our reputation has built and we also do business and corporate events and even weddings, showers and parties too- all in the name of exposure, socialization and raising funds for veterinary care (to fill in where adoption donations fall short).
In general we are the most in-demand organization in the area- but this is not an easy feat to maintain! We rely heavily on fosters, volunteers and the overall community engagement to make ends meet for the animals- which includes you, even as an FTA, promoting your animal even though they have a home eventually is still critical.
Adopting ONE Puppy or Kittens in PAIRS
We just want to thank you for getting involved in rescue - whether FTA the animal you are adopting and or another/others for good measure!
Puppies:
Keeping puppy siblings together initially is best for their development but they typically begin to fight around 10-12 weeks of age- and this fighting becomes less an less play- and more so serious struggles for dominance. If the siblings remain together, many times they can start to fight far more seriously- even to the point of serious harm or even death.
This is due to “Littermate Syndrome”- a circumstance where they fight for dominance within the pack - even if the pack is just two of them. Sometimes this can be somewhat mitigated with a male female pair vs same sex, but in general the outcome is rarely positive. Please note this is not the same as adopting two DOGS together that are unrelated.

Motley Zoo has taken in numerous dogs where (especially) a breeder convinced someone to buy 2 siblings together, because that’s more profitable- but likely knowing this will not yield success either way. This is not as common in rescue because animal welfare organizations are more concerned about the animals’ best interest over profit- and they see what happens when siblings don’t get along.
We find many people struggling at about 6 months to 1 year - and they realize the dogs cannot live together peacefully- and feel forced to rehome one. The problem now however is that once dogs have been fighting, people want to rehome the aggressor - but no one wants this liability.
We have to explain they need to keep the dog who may be “less” adoptable/ more of a liability and rehome the one who is more innocent in it all. This rarely goes over well with people but it’s the reality of rehoming, especially during the current crisis we’re experiencing.
This is the simplest way to recognize the problem: Would you want to live with your sibling forever, and ever, and ever…and ever? Most people’s eyes start bugging at the thought- and the same is true for puppies!
Another issue is that the puppies will never develop into who they are truly meant to be - they will only be who they are within their family dynamic. Many people live with family and when they go off on their own finally feel “free” to be their true selves - the same is true for puppies.
Lastly, adopting two dogs together (whether related or not) can also be problematic because they will naturally bond with each other - and not want to listen to you as much. They will constantly want to play and distract each other, worry what the other is doing and training can be next to impossible.
Many people also treat a pair like one dog, which is an additional concern because it sets them up for codependence that can cause serious anxiety and stress, especially if one dies. If the dogs never learn to be alone- crate alone, sleep alone, be alone even for a few minutes- they can experience distress that could have been prevented.
Human twins cannot be treated like one person and neither can individual puppies or dogs whether they are related or not. They must be walked independently, trained independently, given alone time with their people independently, in order for them to truly thrive. Most people just are not prepared to do this and it can become a significant challenge.
Kittens:
On the other hand, kittens typically do better in pairs. This tends to keep them from becoming to rough, scratchy/ bitey and overall they do want comfort from another- but it can be harder to make unions with cats once they are grown.
Obviously, if adopting out adult cats was impossible, we’d have a million cats that have no homes- so it isn’t that. Rather cats do get more particular and territorial as they age, and change can be dramatic to them, even small adjustments. Sometimes just moving furniture or a litter box can set a cat off and start them stressing and even cause litterbox issues- so imagine bringing in a new cat when they think they are the king of the castle.

This is of course not the case for every cat- but it is much simpler to adopt two kittens when they are already bonded. We also try to explain to people who only want one (and don’t have another at home) that within 6-9 months they will be seeking a mate. They rarely believe us, but they always come looking again- so we try to just send them home together.
On occasion some kittens have been alone and they can be hard to integrate with others. However they will almost always have “Tarzan Syndrome”- where they become very rough with people because they had no siblings to learn proper play and bite inhibition with. This can also happen if a kitten goes home alone and the humans cannot keep up with their play demands or allow bad habits like chewing on hands.
This kind of thing can happen to puppies too that have not grown up with siblings- which is why we keep them together, until they start fighting just enough to show us they are ready to move on!
Please beware of any organizations or people that want you to get two puppies of the same litter together- or even two puppies. We usually recommend a dog be at least 1 yr before bringing in a second.
Most animal welfare organizations have a requirement to adopt two kittens, so it may actually be hard to find one that will offer a single kitten if you do not have another cat for them to go home to.

